A friend posted a bit in their blog about the use of the little "Support our Troops" ribbons that people are plastering all over the place, and my reply got a bit long-winded… so here it is.
I really despise those little ribbons.
I can't help but think that a good 85% of the people who have them on their cars are simply buying into the propoganda and putting them out there because it's "the right thing to do". They most likely do not follow the news, do not do independent research, and do not actually have any clue why our troops are *in* Iraq.
Now, all that said… I *do* support our troops. I think each and every American soilder deserves our support - because, frankly, it's not their fault they're there. They have to follow orders. I don't agree with the *orders*, but I do agree with supporting the men and women in our armed services as much as we can. They're in a craptastic situation, and there's not much they can do about it. They've chosen to enter into military service to our country and, in essence, to *us*, the regular joe-schmoes of the US. For this, they deserve all the support they can get.
As for the flag bit, it drives me batty to see people using the flag in ways it's not supposed to be. It's a symbol of our country and it holds great power - and should be used as such. I'm all for free speech. If you want to burn the flag to make a political statement, that's fabulous. What drives me crazy is the unintential destruction of the flag - people who put a flag on the back of their truck (and I'm talking a real, full size cloth flag) and drive around with it, letting it get dirty and tattered and gross. They think they're showing off their "patriotisim", and they're really just proving that they're idiots. It's a powerful symbol that has been trivialized into a bit of kitsch, and that really kinda sucks.
The more I get into politics, the more I realize that I grew up in an extremely odd household. My dad is a Vietnam vet - and truly is a patriotic man. We grew up with a strong sense of love for our country, and a high respect for the flag. He had a merry little war with the guy who lived across the street, to see who could get their flag out the earliest on federal holidays.
Yet, underneath all of this, there was a strong sense of being able to talk about, debate, and disagree with the government. My dad's a vet, but he doen't think we should have *ever* entered Iraq. He supports his brothers and sisters in arms, yet is vehmently opposed to the Bush administration. He has always instilled in us the ability to speak our minds and debate out issues - even if we end up disagreeing on them, he supports us having an educated opinion.
In writing this out, I realize how lucky I was to grow up with these values - a strong sense of true American patriotisim. It's not about toeing the party line, it's about learning what the isses are and being able to take a stand on them. What seperates us out from a lot of the world is that we *can* have a dissenting opinion. This right seems to be eroding away, though, with more and more pressure to conform to what certain factions think being a "true American" means.